Thursday, July 17, 2008

What's really important

i read this in one of the chicken soup books this evening. and it made my day! =)


A few years ago at the Seattle Special Olympics, nine contestants, all physically or mentally disabled, assembled at the starting line for the 100-yard dash. At the gun they all started out, not exactly in a dash, but with the relish to run the race to the finish and to win.
All, that is, except one boy who stumbled on the asphalt, tumbled over a couple of times, and began to cry. The other 8 heard the boy cry. They slowed down and paused. Then they all turned around and went back. Every one of them. One girl with Down's syndrome bent down and kissed him and said, " this will make it better." Then all nine linked arms and walked together to the finish line.
Everyone in the stadium stood, and the cheering went on for 10 minutes.


ever wondered what we would do in the same situation?

of politics and children

i've never been fond of politics
i've never really kept up with all the hoohaas and haahoos
too many names to memorize, too many lies n scandals, too many 'they say's, too many things swept under the carpet, soooo many grey areas

but since i turned 21 , i realize my duty to vote in the next elections, so i have been paying attention to the on-goings in our political scene today. hoping that when the time comes, i can cast my vote confidently and wisely. insyaAllah..

but what im seeing is certainly not a pretty picture
in fact, its getting uglier by the minute!

so far, there is no one party i would gladly let rule this country.
i guess you could say im being idealistic - for wanting to have Malaysia ruled by people i can respect and look up to. some tell me its impossible to have a 'clean politician' these days. everyone plays dirty. some throw dirt at others. and instead of just smiling, dusting away the dirt and forgiving the person for their ignorance, they throw some dirt back. its a never-ending vicious cycle of backlashing and name-calling. in the end, everyone has a smudge or two on them. its like a freaking kindergarten yard where the kids are out of control.
so what? because of that, we're suppose to settle for these kind of leaders? just because we think it's impossible to have one who has dignity and respect for others, we settle for someone who lies and cheats 'once in awhile' ? as long as he does his job??
just to clarify, i know there are some leaders who are not at all as what i described. (at least i hope so) they are the rare ones in our country today. its just sad, thats all. they are the minority.

i wonder sometimes where these people come from. and why they behave the way they do.
were they not taught right from wrong when they were children? did their parents forget to tell them that this world is temporary and everything we do here will determine how we'll end up in the next world?

i worked in a kindergarten before. i used to be the one greeting the kids when they arrived. and everytime the moms drop their kids of at the gate, they'll ramble a long list of do's and dont's to their kids

share your toys
dont fight
no name calling
dont throw sand at your friends
dont jump of the swing
smile
be friendly
always help your friends
listen to the teacher
respect the teachers ....
you know the rest

children have these instilled in them. all these good values. the problem is, actions speak louder than words. and we adults,well, we dont really practice what we preach most of the time.
and these children pick up on our actions. they see us being rude to others. they see us fighting all the time. name calling. face making. they see us not respecting each other.

we dont share our food with our neighbours, and we expect our children to share their toys
we dont treat our parents right, and we expect our children to listen to and respect us
know what i mean?

i have a feeling these crazy childish politicians were not shown a good example growing up. so im not going to put the blame entirely on them. cause i think deep down, they all have the capacity to be good, loving, respectful figures. they just might not know it. cos probably no one ever told them that. that, or they do know it, and just choose to not be it. now, that calls for a tight slap or two.

so what can we do to try and save our future? we should really start with ourselves. lets start respecting each other more regardless of beliefs or gender. start being nice to our neighbours of all races n creed. lets start treating our parents the way they should be treated. in short, lets start living life the way Allah tells us too. the way our Prophet SAW showed us. they way it is described in the Quran. then maybe, insyaAllah, our future leaders can be of better behaviour than the ones we see today.

ps ~ u guys can start laughing now.

Wednesday, July 16, 2008

beautiful

" My heavens and My earth cannot contain me,
but the hearts of My faithful servants can contain Me"
~ hadis Qudsi

simple.yet so meaningful,no? =)

Sunday, July 13, 2008

rusting brain

wookay!

u know how i know i havent been layan-ing my blog for too long?
first,i forgot my blog address thing. i had to go to abel's blog and click on the link to mine. haha.
then, i forgot my username n password pulak. i had to try numerous times. at last, i remembered that i wrote the details in my old tattered notebook which took a few minutes to look for.

its not that i havent had anything to write about. God knows i have tons to comment on..its just that lately, i've been having a problem with words. they dont seem to come out as i want them too. and its frustrating really..not being able to spill out all thats piling up in my tiny brain. so im forcing myself to write now. bear with me. =)

holidays are coming to an end.

a part of me is excited to start 2nd year. start using my brain again. stop being an antisocial. stop sleeping excessively. i miss old town. i miss the lake where secrets spill out. i miss my sisters =) and im loving our new apartment. i love the new big bed! and the room is always2 cool. and i love all my new housemates. (yes,..all of them =p)

another part is dreading it. cause i love being home. although at times its boring. and i find myself wondering aimlessly around the house. looking for things to do. people to disturb. petiti is always the victim. since she's the only one i can carry. heh. i love the feeling of being close to my parents. and the never ending supply of fruits in the kitchen. i love the coffee at home. and i love saturday night visits to larkin.

if only i could merge these two beautiful worlds together. haihh..

oh! btw..im going to be adding a chatbox here soon. and im thinking of spicing up this page. adding more colour perhaps?
since someone said even people at wooden houses (loosely translated) have websites.
=p =p =p
but i actually like my clean page. simple. kan? but i will add that chatbox la. u just wait! =p

i'll think of more interesting topics to yap about later. durian time! =)